Your ex also is likely to wonder if you were hiding things or a person while the two of you were together. If your ex believes you are hiding something, trust in you as a person takes a hit. Your ex needs to interpret your silence as evidence that you have the ability to move on with your life and that they don’t have the luxury of relying on you reaching out to them or chasing them. Your ex’s attention needs to be on their realization that they miss you and are concerned that they’re losing you because he/she isn’t hearing from you. Sure, your ex might feel sorry for you, but that’s not love and it’s not attractive. That’s the wrong place for the attention to be and will serve as a distraction from the fear of loss that you need your ex to feel. The attention turns to you and how you are sad, depressed, angry, and struggling because you have lost your ex. If you block your ex and they believe that you are struggling terribly with the breakup, they might view you with pity, but they won’t feel that they are losing you or feel attracted to you. It can cause them not to trust you anymore.Ĭonsider what this does to the odds of your ex reaching out.
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It can look cheesy and like you don’t believe in yourself or the relationship if you block your ex, plus no one wants to feel like they’re being played. If your ex believes you’re playing games with them, then you seem weak and fake. That is because they think you are bitter and that you might yell or be rude to them because you are angry and bitter toward them. If you are bitter, you place a hurdle to your ex reaching out to you.īecause your ex might start to miss you and miss the relationship because you are in no contact, but when they start to consider reaching out to you, it’s very likely they’ll decide against it. The reason you don’t want to come across to your ex as doing any of those things is because: Trying to make a statement to them or get at them.Your ex boyfriend/ex girlfriend could think that you are: Should you block your ex’s phone number or were to block them on WhatsApp or social media, consider things from their viewpoint. I certainly am not suggesting that you live your life only to influence or only to re-attract your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend.īut if it is important to you to have the best shot at getting back together with your ex, you have to at least consider some of what you do from their point of view. If you want your ex back, you must consider them in your decisions and actions. While I, as an advocate for those who’ve been dumped, sympathize with the logic behind not wanting to see an ex’s feed on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, WhatsApp, and whatever other social media that might be in use (by the way, I’m on Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter myself), I can tell you that strategically it’s not a good move. Get your ex back with Coach Lee's Emergency Breakup Kit!
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